Tag: acceptance
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Everything Happens: Zen Drop 001
Read time about 2 seconds. Can we go from ‘everything happens for a reason’ to simply, ‘everything happens?’ People love to say, “Everything happens for a reason.” But nobody says, “Shit happens for a reason.” They just say, “Shit happens.” And they’re right. Deep shit happens. It’s completely unreasonable. Greatfruit Zen Mind: No-BS (BS happens.)…
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Acceptance Without Compromise: Empowered, Confident Strength
Read time 5 minutes. Acceptance Without Compromise is a stand alone article in our series regarding Acceptance. We’ve spent a lot of time exploring acceptance, and it’s worth pausing to clear up one final misconception. Too often, people assume that radical acceptance turns us into pushovers. That if we accept what is, we are destined to…
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Acceptance Meditation Practice: Die While You’re Alive
Read time 4 minutes. Acceptance Meditation Practice is a stand alone article in our series regarding Acceptance. Today’s lesson turns to an old and powerful meditation technique: the practice of contemplating death and mortality. On the surface, it may sound grim. Yet, as with so many Zen practices, what seems dark at first becomes a gateway…
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“Yes and” Zen: Say Yes. Better Yet, Say Less
Read time 3 minutes. ‘Yes and’ Zen is a stand alone article in our series regarding Acceptance. Joseph Campbell once asked Sri Krishnamenon, “Since in Hindu thinking all the universe is divine, is a manifestation of divinity itself, how can we say ‘no’ to anything in the world—how can we say ‘no’ to brutality, to stupidity, to…
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Absolute Freedom: The Endgame of Acceptance and Experience
Read time 4 minutes. Absolute Freedom is a stand alone article in our series regarding Acceptance. Our last lesson on radical acceptance turned toward the subject of authentic experience. With it comes a freedom that cannot be manufactured by the ego. This entire series has been pointing us toward that realization, and guiding us along the…
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Authentic Experience: Radical Acceptance and Absolute Freedom
Read time 4 minutes. Authentic Experience is a stand alone article in our series regarding Acceptance Today we return to the theme of radical acceptance. In doing so, several related ideas emerge: experience, purpose, freedom, and identity. A Zen mindset frames these differently than we are used to. Instead of “personal experience,” Zen speaks of authentic experience.…
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Nonacceptance: Acceptance’s Uneasy Bedfellow
Read time 4 minutes. Nonacceptance is a stand alone article in our series regarding Acceptance. Today we continue the discussion of radical acceptance, and what we find may be unsettling. Zen suggests that acceptance is the goal, but paradoxically, the entry point is nonacceptance. It is only by becoming intimate with our refusal to accept that…
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Radical Acceptance: Is It Just A Bit Too Radical For Me Right Now?
Read time 3 minutes. Radical Acceptance is a stand alone article in our series regarding Acceptance. When we talk about radical acceptance, it’s tempting to frame it as an all-or-nothing proposition. Zen teachings certainly suggest as much. Accept everything, without exception. But what if you’re not ready for that? What if the very idea feels…