Read time 3 minutes. Neutral Observation Meditation is a stand alone article in our series regarding mindfulness and meditation.
In recent lessons we’ve explored what I’ve loosely called active meditations. One of the most accessible of these is neutral observation meditation—learning to step back and watch our thoughts and emotions even as we’re caught up in stories, games, or everyday entertainment.
The point is simple: if we cannot let go while watching TV, rooting for our team, or scrolling through social media, how likely are we to do so when life’s real pressures hit? Training under light conditions builds the instinct for when the game is on the line.
Peeling back the layers of illusion
When we get reactive, we poison ourselves. Inner turmoil does not change the situation or the other person—it only disturbs us. How much more true is this when the source of agitation is a television, a novel, or a game score?
Most of what we consume is fiction in the truest sense. Its power lies only in the importance we assign it. Neutral observation meditation asks us to recognize that truth—not through argument or reasoning, but through direct practice.
As we take in a story, we don’t lose its pleasure. Instead, our relationship to it shifts. Rather than being manipulated by suspense, plot twists, or bad calls, we learn to marvel at what unfolds. We discover freedom in the act of watching itself.
Anticipating the next thought
This is where practice deepens. Over time, neutral observation teaches us to notice the stirrings of thought before they sweep us away. We begin to anticipate the next surge of anger, the next burst of excitement, the next spiral of “what if” before it even arrives.
This is a turning point. The space between stimulus and reaction expands. Instead of being wounded and then waiting for time to heal, we avoid the wound altogether. To borrow from the Tao Te Ching: “Nor can the weapons find any place to injure. Why so? Because there is no death spot in him.” As the ego recedes, who is left to be harmed?
Neutral observation meditation: Beyond avoidance, toward freedom
Avoidance and escapism may dull emotion, but they don’t liberate us from it. Neutral observation works differently. By allowing feelings to rise without resistance, we watch them crest and dissolve. This process, repeated again and again, rewires our habits. It becomes second nature—our first instinct instead of our last resort.
Soon we find ourselves less reactive, less identified with outcomes, and more attuned to the fleeting play of thought. The mind reveals itself, and we step into freedom.
Always be practicing
Some may question whether observing emotions during a TV show counts as meditation. In truth, it is the same core instruction as seated practice: witness without judgment the arising and falling of thought. Here, the difference is simply that we practice amidst stimulation.
Neutral observation is not the end but the beginning. It suggests that no moment—whether on a cushion, in conversation, or in front of a screen—is exempt from practice. Every thought is an opportunity to take back the reins.
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I have been using the term active meditation in an admittedly loose way. To say that sitting in front of a TV and observing inner thoughts and emotions is active certainly seems like a stretch. Some of you may be less inclined to find yourselves engaged with your television or devices in this way. For you, I offer this article on Aura Health. In it you will find an array of meditations that encourage you to actively engage both your mind and your body.
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